The Woman With Strong Iman

A strong woman works out everyday to keep her body in shape,
But a woman with strong iman prostrates in prayer to keep her soul in shape…

A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything,
But a woman with strong iman shows courage in the midst of fear…

A strong woman won’t let anyone get the best of her,
But a woman with strong iman gives the best of herself to everyone…

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids making the same in the future,
But a woman with strong iman realises life’s ‘mistakes’ can also be Allah’s blessings and capitalises on them…

A strong woman walks sure footedly…
But a woman with strong iman has sabr (patience) when she falls…

A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face,
But a woman with strong iman wears grace…

A strong woman strives to look beautiful and perfect,
But a woman with strong iman knows that she can possess nothing more attractive than the adornment of faith and the beauty of taqwa…

A strong woman has faith knowing she is strong enough for the journey,
But a woman with strong iman has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong…

Marry The Seven Types Of Pearls

1. The Patient:
The women who remains patient in all circumtances and never whines moans and complains when some trouble or affliction hits her, She Turns to Allah for help.

2. The Protector:
The women who Protects her husband wealth and her chastity when he is away from home. When he returns, she does not burden him with the day’s problem, but listen attentively to his need and does her best to take his tiredness away.

3. The Lover:
The women who adores her husband and craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her du’aa pours for her from the bottom of his heart.

4. The Do-Gooder:
The women who has an excellent reputation in society for being kind, caring and courteous to all, She is good with her neighbors, relatives and never backbites or displays jealousy.

5. The Content:
The women who never Casts her eyes at material things and is content with ever little her husbands gives her, She is thankful to him for every morsel that he feeds her, every clothe that he gifts her including the roof over her head, She makes her greatfulness known to him in words and actions, and thus soothes her husband’s heart.

6. The Pious:
The women who spends much of her day in dhikr, tilaawatul Qur’an and Salah and her nights is praying tahajjud and crying to Allah for forgiveness, She encourages her husband to give da’wah in his sparetime.

7. The Sweet Smiler:
The women who smiles excessively especially when her husband is at home, She always talk gently that it seems that pearls are dripping from her mouth, She never raises her voices while talking to her husband, If her husband is angry with her for some reason and shout her, she does not answer him back but maintains as dignified silence, When he has calm down, she offers him cool water and apologizes to him even if she wasn’t at fault.

-voice of the heart

You Can Be The Happiest Woman

With your beauty, you are better than the sun; with your morals you are more sublime than musk; with your modesty you are nobler than the full moon; with your compassion you a more beneficial than rain. So, preserve your beauty with faith, your tranquility with contentment, your chastity with hijab.

Remember that your adornment is not gold, silver or diamond, rather, it is two rak'ahs at Fajr going thirsty when you fast for Allah, concealed charity which no one knows except Him, hot tears that wash away sin, a lengthy prostration born of utter submission to Allah, shyness before Allah when the inclination to do evil overwhelms you.

Clothe yourself with the garments of taqwa (piety) for you are the most beautiful woman in the world, even if your clothes are shabby. Clothe yourself with cloak of modesty, for you are the most beautiful woman in the world even if you are barefoot.

Beware of the life bewitching immoral disbelieving women, for they are the fuel of the fire of Hell.

O' sincere Muslim, O' believing woman who constantly turns to Allah, the Exalted, be like the palm tree and rise above evil and harm; if a stone is thrown at the palm tree, it lets its fruit drop (and does not retaliate). It remains green summer and winter, and gives many benefits. Do not lower yourself to the level of trivial matters, and rise above all that may damage your modesty and honour.

A man had an argument with his wife and said, "I am going to make your life miserable." The wife calmly replied, "You cannot do that." He said, "Why not?" She said: "If happiness were to be found in money or jewellery, you could deprive me of it and take it away from me, but it is nothing over which you or any other person has control. I find happiness in my faith, and my faith is in my heart, and no one has power over it except my Lord."

The One Who created happiness is the Most Gracious, Most Merciful, so how can you seek happiness from anyone other than Him? If people had control over happiness, there would be no deprived or grieving person left on earth.

Excerpts From: You Can Be the Happiest Woman in the World!
By Sheikh 'A'id al Qarni

The Tears of a woman

• Have you ever wondered why do women cry?

This is especially for all the men out there who do not understand the tears of a woman; they say and assume that women cry for no reason.

But stated below are the true reasons..

When Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfaltering. And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart – the place where love resides.

That is why we say that: "The most strength of water is in the tears of a woman."

And this is also to all the women out there. You are wonderful, beautiful, strong, determined and love by Allah.
(By Mohammad Shaharyar Khalid)